Should I confess past sex life?

Your honesty will have him running for the hills only if his previous girlfriends were clones of Maria from The Sound of Music. After all, how many women do you know that have had more men in their beds than they were proud of when they found “the one”? Not that many? Exactly. It’s time to accept the fact that you have a past. Getting together with someone shouldn’t mean you have to deny it. Or become half the person you are. You learn from relationships. About your wants. Your needs. Your boundaries. And that makes you more ready for the one you’re in now. And as for your flings: the same theory applies. So accept the fun of the past. And celebrate it. Especially as you clearly want something more today. That said, I don’t think you should tell your new man the whole truth. After all, how will it benefit the relationship? Imagine asking him the question. If he says he’s slept with a high number, you could think he’s a player. If he says a low number you could think he’s inexperienced, or worse - not over his first lover. Put simply. The numbers game is a high-risk strategy, with the outcome of future jealousy, insecurity and envy not stacked in anyone’s favour. And it’s exactly because of this, I feel confident your bloke won’t ask you the question. Deep down, just like you he won’t want to hear the truth. And at the same time, he’ll be busy on working out how he can deny his past when you ask him the same question yourself.